Saturday, June 13, 2009

2 of 4 Looking at/flirting with/crushing on other girls/guys

Sometimes, we just can’t help looking at the hot ones or crushing on the pretty ones… If you’re lucky and pretty/hot as well, they talk to you. Problem is, your beau gets jealous when such circumstances occur.

Be rational my friends… Every human being is attracted to beauty or what is aesthetically pleasing. That’s why we have celebrities that we ogle at. I don’t think what I’m about to say is applicable to guys so… Girls, I’m sure you appreciate other hot girls, if you don’t, learn to. You won’t turn into a lesbian, but if it is your cup of tea, good for you! Anyway, I’m losing my point… Instead of arguing about why the guy was looking at some other girl, you could’ve just looked at her yourself and you wouldn’t need to ask him. It’s even something to talk about, something to laugh about.

On the other hand, I find that it’s all right to flirt as long as there’s no follow through. I remember this one time, my friends told me I was flirting when I thought it was mere conversation and joking around. It’s one thing to talk about it or imagine it; it’s another thing to actually do something about it. They do say you should give yourself body, mind, and soul, but think about it… ”Man is insatiable.” In times like these, let the mind roam free, but keep your heart and soul where they are…

Be open and honest about your thoughts. Respect each others preferences, but always appreciate what you already have because that is hard to find.

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